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Do This And They'll Use You For Sex



Listen as we vehemently disagree with a love coach who tells women to “meet men where they are.” Enjoy the floor, ladies! They're not interested if you need to prod them to see you again.


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In This Episode:

  • How love-bombing can be insidious and not always obvious.

  • Why meeting men where they’re at will lead to dating low-effort men.

  • Reasons some men feel so comfortable insulting plus-sized women and signs to look for to avoid them.

  • A listener asks for advice about the best dating apps for women of color.

  • Are social media platforms like Instagram and Tik Tok becoming the new dating apps?

  • How to make rejection hurt less.

  • We debunk the 80/20 rule that states 80% of women go after the top 20% of men and why discuss why men try to use it to prove women are shallow.

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