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Christan
Oct 11, 20204 min read
Sex, Lies And Expectations
From Reddit: I’m 42 and divorced. I met this amazing guy on Bumble. We chatted for a bit and then met up for lunch on a Monday. We had...
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Christan
Oct 5, 20205 min read
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
Sep 29, 20204 min read
Who Pays On The First Date, Who Doesn't & Why
It’s still the norm that the vast majority of women are free loaders. They rarely offer to pay their fair share. Last week this woman I...
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Christan
Sep 20, 20201 min read
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
Sep 15, 20205 min read
Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
Sep 15, 20205 min read
Dating & Disclosure: When Do You Talk Disabilities, Trauma or Mental Illness?
Hi Christan, How do singles talk about physical.pain and activity limitations? As I get older I find that I can not keep up with friends...
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Christan
Sep 8, 20203 min read
When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
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Christan
Aug 18, 20204 min read
Are You An Online Dating Snob?
I just finished reading your post about phrases to remove from your dating profile. You tell people to remove comments about preferring...
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Christan
Jul 27, 20205 min read
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
Jul 6, 20203 min read
How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
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Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...
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Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
May 20, 20203 min read
How To Get More Messages On Dating Apps
So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend...
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Christan
Feb 11, 20203 min read
Why Did He Suddenly Blow Her Off?
Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective...
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