BLOG

Read the latest Dateology Coach advice and answers

Men Only Agree To Be Exclusive When It's Convenient For Them

Jan 20, 20233 min read

Men Only Agree To Be Exclusive When It's Convenient For Them

Have known a guy (A) for years in which we get together occasionally. When I see him it’s lovely, warm, and safe. I also Occasionally...

338 views0 comments

Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Christan

Dec 31, 20213 min read

Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Jan 1st is the busiest day for dating apps. Make sure your profile is ready! Get my How To Write The Best Dating Profile Ever & Master...

102 views0 comments

Why Don't They Just Say They're Not Interested?

Christan

Dec 17, 20213 min read

Why Don't They Just Say They're Not Interested?

Quick question. I connected with a guy from Tinder in 2019. Since I don't like to text, I gave him my number so that we could arrange...

119 views0 comments

Christan

Nov 9, 20212 min read

How Does She Tell Men She's A Virgin?

So I'm officially encroaching on 40 Year Old Virgin status, and it's kinda of freaking me out. I put any potential dating life on hold...

59 views0 comments

Statements Only: Avoid Guys That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

Christan

Oct 27, 20211 min read

Statements Only: Avoid Guys That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

Let’s talk about how to set up that first date so you can avoid conversations like this one. So here’s how this is going to go: Don’t...

72 views0 comments

Why Don't Men Ask Women Any Questions On First Dates?

Christan

Sep 7, 20213 min read

Why Don't Men Ask Women Any Questions On First Dates?

Back on Bumble after an 8 month break. Matched with a guy who seems nice, been having fun banter but I realized he only asked me two...

691 views0 comments

Christan

Aug 31, 20212 min read

Avoid This Dating Profile Red Flag

SEP 8 - WRITE THE BEST DATING PROFILE EVER ZOOM WORKSHOP This online workshop to help you match with and meet relationship-focused ...

105 views0 comments

Christan

Apr 9, 20214 min read

Is Her Partner A Love Addict?

I’ve been dating someone for a month and half—we met via Instagram and have mutual IRL friends so it felt a little safer and more ...

42 views0 comments

Christan

Mar 29, 20211 min read

Write The Best Dating Profile Ever

Ever wonder what potential matches think of your Tinder, Bumble or Match.com profile? Do you find yourself frequently getting unmatched...

129 views0 comments

How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Christan

Mar 26, 20211 min read

How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Hey so I've been talking to this guy for 4 months and yesterday I asked him what his intentions were. I had the conversation with him...

108 views0 comments

Christan

Mar 2, 20213 min read

Why You Need Multiple Dating Profiles

SUBMIT YOUR OWN QUESTION HERE Mar 11 - Online Dating 101 - Group Zoom Workshop - 5 Spots Available - Get Details & Register Here Big ...

92 views0 comments

Can You Meet The Right Person At The Wrong Time?

Christan

Feb 15, 20213 min read

Can You Meet The Right Person At The Wrong Time?

I’ve been single for 10 years after an 11 year marriage. My longest relationship was 4 months which was my rebound relationship that I...

117 views0 comments

Christan

Jan 28, 20211 min read

Is His Female Best Friend A Threat?

Hi. I’ve been dating a guy for 4 months. We’re both in our mid/late 30s. It seems to be going really well overall. Except one thing. Is...

96 views0 comments

If He Has To Tell You He's A Good Guy, He Probably Isn't

Christan

Jan 19, 20212 min read

If He Has To Tell You He's A Good Guy, He Probably Isn't

I’ve been talking to this guy that I met on hinge and we have gone out on a couple of dates, I asked him what is he looking for and his...

98 views0 comments

Christan

Dec 30, 20203 min read

Dating With An Anxious Attachment Style

Hello, not sure where to really start this and I'm kind of embarrassed/ sad to admit to this but I think I am the reason it usually...

235 views0 comments

There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk

Christan

Dec 20, 20201 min read

There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk

This guy really thought what he said was appropriate.

109 views0 comments

How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

Christan

Nov 13, 20202 min read

How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...

130 views0 comments

Christan

Oct 29, 20203 min read

How To Write A Kick-Ass Dating Profile Bio - Free Worksheet Included

Download my free worksheet that will help you write a more well-rounded and engaging dating app bio or online dating site About Me...

487 views0 comments

Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You

Christan

Oct 25, 20204 min read

Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You

You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....

1,484 views0 comments

How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick

Christan

Oct 22, 20203 min read

How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick

QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...

266 views0 comments

BLOG

@thechristanm

Subscribe and get weekly advice
podcast episodes & dating advice articles

BLOG

Subscribe and get weekly advice podcast episodes & dating advice articles

Subscribe and get weekly advice
podcast episodes & dating advice articles