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Did He Lose Interest Or Was He Just Looking For A Hookup?

Jun 7, 20223 min read

Did He Lose Interest Or Was He Just Looking For A Hookup?

I got tagged in the comments of this video so let’s talk about it. I would encourage you to go to her page and watch part 1 for context....

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Is He Hung Up On His Ex Or Just Not Interested?

Christan

Mar 8, 20214 min read

Is He Hung Up On His Ex Or Just Not Interested?

This guy I went on one date with and had a really good time seems to be very inconsistent. So I just ask him what he’s looking for and...

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How To Avoid The Post-First Date Freak Out

Christan

Feb 16, 20211 min read

How To Avoid The Post-First Date Freak Out

I recently had a first date with this guy and it went really well, chemistry was there, good conversation, attraction, etc. He had told...

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Should You Send Your First Date A Follow Up Text?

Christan

Feb 14, 20213 min read

Should You Send Your First Date A Follow Up Text?

So I just went on a great first date last night. The conversation was flowing so nicely to the point time just flew by. I was not...

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Should She Forgive Her Boyfriend For Sexting Other Women?

Christan

Feb 11, 20211 min read

Should She Forgive Her Boyfriend For Sexting Other Women?

I met a guy on a dating site. We went on a few dates and I didn’t like him at first. Turns out we have a lot in common. On our 5th date...

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Signs They're Looking For A Relationship

Christan

Feb 2, 20211 min read

Signs They're Looking For A Relationship

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Did She Scare Him Off Or Was He Always Going To Leave?

Christan

Jan 6, 20213 min read

Did She Scare Him Off Or Was He Always Going To Leave?

I started dating this guy I met on Hinge in the beginning of October. He worked in another city a few hours away, but he often came home...

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Signs They're Just Keeping You Around For Sex

Christan

Jan 5, 20214 min read

Signs They're Just Keeping You Around For Sex

Hello! My question centre’s around online dating. I matched with this guy on a dating app and immediately we totally hit it off. Within 2...

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Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Christan

Jan 2, 20214 min read

Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Why is it that I can’t find a guy who can actually make and commit to plans?? It’s always “oh yea we’ll do something...” “I’ll think of...

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How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

Christan

Nov 13, 20202 min read

How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...

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Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You

Christan

Oct 25, 20204 min read

Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You

You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....

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How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick

Christan

Oct 22, 20203 min read

How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick

QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...

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Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

Christan

Aug 27, 20201 min read

Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore. Sexting after marathon date...

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Christan

Jul 29, 20203 min read

Ready To Social Distance Date? Add This To Your Dating Profile ASAP

I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...

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Christan

Jul 15, 20205 min read

Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...

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Christan

Jun 14, 20204 min read

How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less

In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...

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Christan

May 5, 20204 min read

Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?

I'm in my mid 50's and last year my husband left me for another woman after 13 years together. It was a terrible shock as I had no...

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