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Jun 7, 20231 min read

Why Men Try For Sex On The First Date

For context, please watch this TikTok before listening to the free dating advice podcast. This creator went on a first date for lunch...

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Christan

Feb 22, 20231 min read

Do This And They'll Use You For Sex

Listen as we vehemently disagree with a love coach who tells women to “meet men where they are.” Enjoy the floor, ladies! They're not...

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Men Only Agree To Be Exclusive When It's Convenient For Them

Christan

Jan 20, 20233 min read

Men Only Agree To Be Exclusive When It's Convenient For Them

Have known a guy (A) for years in which we get together occasionally. When I see him it’s lovely, warm, and safe. I also Occasionally...

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Men Who Lose Interest In Women After Sex

Christan

Jan 10, 20231 min read

Men Who Lose Interest In Women After Sex

In This Week's Episode: Listen To The Full Length Episode The Idaho 4: We discuss the affidavit and talk about the incel culture &...

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Ignore This Bro Science Myth About Dating

Christan

Jan 9, 20234 min read

Ignore This Bro Science Myth About Dating

There’s a dating coach on TikTok that claims when a man first falls in love with you, his testosterone goes down, so he ghosts you for...

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How To Keep It Casual If He Says He Doesn't Want A Relationship

Christan

Jul 14, 20221 min read

How To Keep It Casual If He Says He Doesn't Want A Relationship

What are some talks/actions to avoid if you are dating someone casually? I would like to know what would muddy the waters. The key to...

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When You Think He Just Wants To Sleep With You

Christan

Feb 28, 20221 min read

When You Think He Just Wants To Sleep With You

I met a new guy online. We FaceTimed on a Thursday, had first date Saturday, second Sunday and third Tuesday with another scheduled for...

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Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Christan

Jan 25, 20221 min read

Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...

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F*ck That Guy: Friends With Benefits Edition

Christan

Jan 14, 20223 min read

F*ck That Guy: Friends With Benefits Edition

Listen to The Dateology Coach Podcast for more dating advice. So I’m trying to get out of a fwb situation. We are on this dance for over...

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Christan

Jan 3, 20221 min read

He Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYE

Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...

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Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Christan

Dec 31, 20213 min read

Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Jan 1st is the busiest day for dating apps. Make sure your profile is ready! Get my How To Write The Best Dating Profile Ever & Master...

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Why Most Friends With Benefits Relationships Don't Work

Christan

Dec 9, 20213 min read

Why Most Friends With Benefits Relationships Don't Work

This Tik Tok got me thinking about Friends With Benefits Arrangements and why they typically don’t work. We talk more about this in this...

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Podcast Episode - Let's Normalize Using Men

Christan

Nov 23, 20211 min read

Podcast Episode - Let's Normalize Using Men

We kick off the episode with a little pop culture. IN THIS EPISODE: Let's normalize using men for sex Why Chris Pratt is misogynistic...

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Christan

Nov 9, 20212 min read

How Does She Tell Men She's A Virgin?

So I'm officially encroaching on 40 Year Old Virgin status, and it's kinda of freaking me out. I put any potential dating life on hold...

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F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

Christan

Oct 18, 20211 min read

F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...

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Should She Tell Her Friends They're Dating The Same Man ?

Christan

Oct 7, 20211 min read

Should She Tell Her Friends They're Dating The Same Man ?

IN THIS EPISODE: A Bumble conversation that went horribly wrong Why can she only attract younger men? Should she tell two women they’re...

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Christan

Sep 10, 20214 min read

Beware The First Date Future Faker

I matched with a guy and we had our first date which went well until he started getting very touchy. He asked if he could come home...

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Christan

Aug 19, 20211 min read

Why Men Lose Interest After Sex

SPOT EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MATCHES BEFORE YOU SWIPE Don’t forget - Tuesday Aug 24th - Master Online Dating Zoom Workshop. This is for...

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Christan

Aug 15, 20211 min read

It's a F*ck That Guy Extravaganza!

We might have to come up with a new catch phrase after this episode. A woman writes in asking how she can get her boyfriend to stop...

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Big Little Bonus Podcast Episode: F*ck That Guy Edition

Christan

Aug 2, 20212 min read

Big Little Bonus Podcast Episode: F*ck That Guy Edition

SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK NEWSLETTER TO LISTEN TO THE PODCAST We saved the best letter for this week’s Substack podcast. See letter below....

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