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Christan
Feb 20, 20211 min read
How Come So Many Unattractive Men Swipe Right On Her Profile?
Hi I'm not sure if you made a video on this yet but I noticed a lot of unattractive men swipe me on dating apps. So it makes me feel I'm...
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Christan
Feb 19, 20213 min read
Are You In Lust, Love or Limerance?
I met a friend (1) of a friend (2) before the pandemic started and we really clicked but at the time I was in a bad place so let the...
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Christan
Feb 9, 20213 min read
How Do You Let Someone Go That Hurt You?
I went back on the dating apps back in September 2020 after eight years of being celibate for 8 years and I matched with this handsome...
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Christan
Feb 4, 20212 min read
Never Ignore This Dating Red Flag
I was dating a guy for almost 2 months. The first month was great, we talked for hours on the phone every night. He asked me to be his...
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Christan
Feb 1, 20211 min read
Does Her Guy Friend Want To Date Her?
I was talking to this guy. Very flirty for months. One day he tells me he went away for the weekend with a girl, very romantic. ...
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Christan
Jan 19, 20212 min read
If He Wanted To, He Would
I have a semi-complicated situation and am hoping you can help! I met a guy on tinder who I actually knew from high school (not very...
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Christan
Jan 15, 20212 min read
Is He A Narcissist or Just A Jerk?
Hi!! I just want to start with the fact that I adore you and your podcasts! So my story is I started dating a guy that I worked with that...
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Christan
Jan 15, 20213 min read
How To Leave A Toxic Partner
Okay long story short fell for a man who was still in the process of getting a divorce 11/18 well in 2/19 started being FWB and nothing...
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Christan
Jan 10, 20215 min read
Signs They're Not Over Their Ex
I’m having a hard time making sense out of what happened with the last guy I dated. I met him on social media through mutual friends that...
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Christan
Jan 4, 20213 min read
How To Bounce Back After Being Ghosted
How do you remain positive and open to dating when you’ve been ghosted so often? It’s hard to ‘get back out there’ when you’ve been...
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Christan
Dec 30, 20203 min read
Dating With An Anxious Attachment Style
Hello, not sure where to really start this and I'm kind of embarrassed/ sad to admit to this but I think I am the reason it usually...
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Christan
Nov 24, 20201 min read
First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship
New dating podcast alert! FIRST DATE SEX & EXCHANGING SEX FOR EXCLUSIVITY First up, we discuss a toxic Tik Tok that went viral from a man...
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Christan
Nov 10, 20201 min read
It's Time To Normalize Loneliness
We need to ditch the stigma attached to loneliness. The stigma is what compels people to return to dating apps when they are vulnerable,...
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Christan
Oct 19, 20203 min read
Is She His Emotional Support Girlfriend?
Last fall, I met a man on Bumble and we dated for about three months. He spent the night once or twice a week, we made dinner together,...
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Christan
Oct 1, 20204 min read
Do You Attract The Wrong People Or Retain Them?
From a recent Reddit post: I made a (since deleted) post about it a few days back - how this guy was consistently running hot (even...
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Christan
Sep 27, 20204 min read
Are You Single Because You're Shallow?
I have been on dating sites for years and, I find mostly the regular person with average interests and, I have had relationships with ...
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Christan
Sep 22, 20204 min read
Signs Your Date Is Toxic
We'd been sitting at our corner two-top table for less than thirty minutes when it started. I could barely finish a sentence without him...
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Christan
Sep 20, 20201 min read
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
Aug 31, 20204 min read
The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
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Christan
Aug 24, 20205 min read
Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
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