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Christan
Jun 30, 20204 min read
Never Upgrade Your First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
Jun 28, 20205 min read
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...
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Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
Jun 12, 20203 min read
Did He Find Someone Else Or Is He Just A Flake?
Hello. I recently had 2 dates with a guy who initiated contact on a dating app, he seemed really nice, interesting, and very interested...
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Christan
Jun 9, 20206 min read
The Other Woman Isn't To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
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Christan
Jun 8, 20203 min read
What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
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Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
May 10, 20201 min read
Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing
Scammers are constantly educating themselves on the various traps laid out for them. They know what we look for, which is why you can’t ...
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Christan
Apr 26, 20203 min read
Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
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Christan
Apr 12, 20203 min read
Are Dating Apps Full of Men Just Looking For Sex?
Hi, prior to the virus pandemic I explored online dating without success. I have encountered that the quality of men on these sites is...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20202 min read
Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop
MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20204 min read
Is He a Flake Or a Scammer?
I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
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Christan
Mar 21, 20202 min read
Master Dating Apps Without Losing Your Mind Online Wo
THURSDAY, MAR 26 - 7PM EASTERN ***This is a 45 minute online workshop you can attend from home. $20 - Please prepay here...
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Christan
Mar 21, 20201 min read
Podcast - Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex
Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual...
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Christan
Mar 17, 20203 min read
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
Mar 4, 20206 min read
Avoid The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
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Christan
Mar 1, 20204 min read
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
Feb 20, 20201 min read
Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
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Christan
Feb 20, 20206 min read
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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