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Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

Jul 13, 20211 min read

Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

In this episode We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork How does she get rid of her meth-loving...

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Why I Side-Eye Older Women/Younger Men Relationships

Christan

Jul 6, 20211 min read

Why I Side-Eye Older Women/Younger Men Relationships

IN THIS EPISODE: Why I side-eye older women/younger men relationships How men need to step it up in the self-care department Should she...

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Toxic Dating Rules That Need To Die In A Fire

Christan

Mar 13, 20211 min read

Toxic Dating Rules That Need To Die In A Fire

Enjoy the teaser to this week's full-length Patrons only episode. The 12 Date Rule. The 90 Day Rule. Can we all collectively agree...

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Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

Christan

Dec 30, 20201 min read

Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...

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Christan

Dec 18, 20201 min read

Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men ...

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Christan

Nov 3, 20202 min read

Letting Go When A Marriage Ends

I have a follow up question to the last one about the guy that still had his deceased fiancés engagement ring and his new fiancé selling...

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Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice

Christan

Oct 21, 20201 min read

Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice

If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set...

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Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question

Christan

Sep 20, 20201 min read

Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question

A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...

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Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits

Christan

Sep 13, 20201 min read

Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits

This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist....

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Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

Christan

Aug 27, 20201 min read

Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore. Sexting after marathon date...

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Dateology Podcast - Tinder Stalkers & Juggling Multiple Partners

Christan

Aug 20, 20201 min read

Dateology Podcast - Tinder Stalkers & Juggling Multiple Partners

We talk the pair and a spare theory and how men aren't the only ones that date multiple people at the same time. Also discussed is a...

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Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Christan

Aug 6, 20201 min read

Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...

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Christan

Jul 30, 20201 min read

Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...

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Christan

Jul 13, 20203 min read

How To Love Online Dating Again

I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...

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Podcast - Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex

Christan

Mar 21, 20201 min read

Podcast - Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex

Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual...

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Christan

Feb 20, 20201 min read

Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too

We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...

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Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

Christan

Feb 12, 20201 min read

Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...

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