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Christan
Nov 16, 20202 min read
If You Don't Do Hookups Then Don't Hookup.
Here's a Reddit post we address on this week's Dateology Podcast. TL;DR: guy who had no intention of dating me misled me and...
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Christan
Nov 13, 20202 min read
How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message
the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...
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Christan
Oct 29, 20203 min read
How To Write A Kick-Ass Dating Profile Bio - Free Worksheet Included
Download my free worksheet that will help you write a more well-rounded and engaging dating app bio or online dating site About Me...
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Christan
Oct 14, 20203 min read
Money, Credit Scores, Job Titles & Your Dating Profile
Should a woman mention her career or job title in her profile? Would it potentially invite scammers if it is considered a lucrative...
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Christan
Oct 7, 20203 min read
The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40
I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+? Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...
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Christan
Oct 5, 20205 min read
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
Aug 31, 20204 min read
The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
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Christan
Aug 16, 20203 min read
Why Did She Dump Him After Sex?
After two weeks of texting and three dates, a woman I met on Tinder said she wasn't feeling it and wanted us to be friends. (We were...
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Christan
Aug 2, 20204 min read
Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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Christan
Jul 20, 20204 min read
Are Dating Apps Racist?
Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
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Christan
Jul 13, 20203 min read
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
Jul 8, 20204 min read
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
Jun 30, 20204 min read
Never Upgrade Your First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
Jun 28, 20205 min read
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...
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Christan
Jun 16, 20203 min read
The Problem With "Preferences" In Dating Profiles
One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
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Christan
Jun 12, 20203 min read
Did He Find Someone Else Or Is He Just A Flake?
Hello. I recently had 2 dates with a guy who initiated contact on a dating app, he seemed really nice, interesting, and very interested...
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Christan
Jun 8, 20203 min read
What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
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Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
May 22, 20203 min read
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
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