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Feb 1, 20231 min read

Free Dating Advice Zoom

If you're single and dating (or thinking about dating again), join us for an informative, light-hearted discussion about the current...

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Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Christan

Jan 25, 20221 min read

Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...

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Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Christan

Dec 31, 20213 min read

Don't Fall Down The "What Are You Looking For?" Rabbit Hole

Jan 1st is the busiest day for dating apps. Make sure your profile is ready! Get my How To Write The Best Dating Profile Ever & Master...

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Christan

Oct 15, 20211 min read

Things Not To Say In Your Profile If You're Looking For A Relationship

Looking to take things slow/start as friends - Unless you’re on the asexuality, spectrum, a disclaimer like this will make you sound...

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Christan

Oct 14, 20213 min read

What Are Your Online Dating Pet Peeves?

I asked my Instagram followers what their biggest online dating pet peeves were. Here are a few responses and my explanations. People who...

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Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

Christan

Oct 8, 20215 min read

Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

I had very little success in dating before 2020, but since the pandemic the amount of online dating users increased significantly and I...

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Christan

Aug 31, 20212 min read

Avoid This Dating Profile Red Flag

SEP 8 - WRITE THE BEST DATING PROFILE EVER ZOOM WORKSHOP This online workshop to help you match with and meet relationship-focused ...

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What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?

Christan

May 11, 20213 min read

What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?

I just started talking to a guy through a dating app and we moved to texting (my choice). We have really great convo and it’s even...

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Christan

Mar 29, 20211 min read

Write The Best Dating Profile Ever

Ever wonder what potential matches think of your Tinder, Bumble or Match.com profile? Do you find yourself frequently getting unmatched...

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How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Christan

Mar 26, 20211 min read

How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Hey so I've been talking to this guy for 4 months and yesterday I asked him what his intentions were. I had the conversation with him...

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Cringey Comments In Men's Dating Profiles

Christan

Mar 22, 20211 min read

Cringey Comments In Men's Dating Profiles

Sick of meeting scammers and flakes on Bumble? Tired of mixed messages from your matches? Check out my Master Online Dating course...

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Christan

Mar 2, 20213 min read

Why You Need Multiple Dating Profiles

SUBMIT YOUR OWN QUESTION HERE Mar 11 - Online Dating 101 - Group Zoom Workshop - 5 Spots Available - Get Details & Register Here Big ...

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Christan

Feb 17, 20212 min read

Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...

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Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Christan

Jan 2, 20214 min read

Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Why is it that I can’t find a guy who can actually make and commit to plans?? It’s always “oh yea we’ll do something...” “I’ll think of...

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Christan

Dec 22, 20200 min read

Online Dating, Trauma & PTSD

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Christan

Dec 18, 20201 min read

Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men ...

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Not-So-Obvious Signs They're Just Looking To Hook-Up

Christan

Dec 17, 20201 min read

Not-So-Obvious Signs They're Just Looking To Hook-Up

We know the obvious signs that someone is just looking for sex, but what about the ones that aren't so obvious? Part 1 of my 4 part...

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One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps

Christan

Dec 9, 20201 min read

One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps

This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:

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Christan

Nov 30, 20202 min read

Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?

So i have been seeing this guy for a month now. We have only been out twice. Once for coffee and once for lunch. Now he wants to meet...

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Nobody Is Obligated To Date A Single Parent

Christan

Nov 16, 20201 min read

Nobody Is Obligated To Date A Single Parent

I understand why dating as a single parent can be frustrating. I really do. But let's stop making this about how the person rejecting the...

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