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Why You Should Buy Yourself A Fake Engagement Ring
I came across this Tik Tok this morning and wanted to discuss it. In the video, the woman reveals she bought herself a fake engagement...

Christan
May 16, 20231 min read
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Four Reasons You're Attracting Unavailable Men
A married old flame followed me on Instagram and I’m confused about why. A little backstory. In my freshman year of college, I met a guy...

Christan
Apr 7, 20232 min read
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How To Stop Worrying About Ending Up Alone
A woman submitted this letter to my podcast: I have a big fear of ending up alone which has led me to spend my whole life chasing male...

Christan
Mar 8, 20232 min read
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Is He An Avoidant Or A Narcissist?
I very recently, as in about a month ago, met a guy, had a connection with him unlike any I had ever experienced (including being with...

Christan
Jan 27, 20234 min read
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When You're Afraid To Date Because Of Your Weight
I have always been a yo-yo with my weight over the years, (my size can range from size 8 - 14) without sounding into myself I'm an...

Christan
Mar 15, 20222 min read
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Where Are All The Emotionally Healthy Men?
Hi! Im about to be 32 and live in NYC. I have never been in a relationship, by choice. To give you a little more background Im a ...

Christan
Dec 22, 20213 min read
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He's Not Flirting He's Insulting You
Follow me on Instagram for more free dating advice content. Guy on our first date was giving innuendoes and was a little overly sexual. ...

Christan
Nov 30, 20212 min read
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When He Tells You He's A Clown, Believe Him
Listening to the Dateology podcast is always a highlight of each week for me. I have a question about knowing if you're being lied to a...

Christan
Oct 12, 20216 min read
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Why Can't He Find Women That Interest Him?
MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE Can’t make one of the workshops? Download my Master Online Dating Online Course. This course...

Christan
Oct 5, 20214 min read
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Would You Want To Know You Were Someone's Second Choice?
Just wondering if you can advise: texting a guy for a couple weeks we hit it off and planned on meeting. He ticked all my boxes! Due...

Christan
Jul 8, 20213 min read
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F*ck That Guy: He's In Love With His BFF
Hi There, So I've started to see this one guy and he kept bringing up his one female friend. I had asked him why didn't you ask her...

Christan
Jul 1, 20212 min read
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Beware The Emotional Arsonist
I do a little admin work for the man I’m dating and have access to his email account. He told me he is good friends with his ex (as he...

Christan
May 31, 20213 min read
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Should You Mention Your Disability Before Your First Date?
Hi, I recently went on a date with somebody (9 years younger than me). Everything was going well until it was time for me to get up...

Christan
May 11, 20212 min read
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Is She Not Interested Or Is He Just Not Toxic?
After years of trauma bonding with men and having dysfunctional relationships, I’m finally working on boundaries and being authentic...

Christan
Apr 14, 20213 min read
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Signs You've Matched With A Love Fraud
Hi, thank you for sharing your knowledge in such a kind way. I matched with a guy, it was a long-distance, he is 32 I'm 38 but he said...

Christan
Mar 22, 20216 min read
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Does He Really Like Her Or Is He Using Her?
Hey, so I've a complicated one. I've been madly in love with this fella since the age of 11 and back then he also liked me. We became...

Christan
Feb 22, 20215 min read
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How To Avoid The Post-First Date Freak Out
I recently had a first date with this guy and it went really well, chemistry was there, good conversation, attraction, etc. He had told...

Christan
Feb 16, 20211 min read
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Does Her Guy Friend Want To Date Her?
I was talking to this guy. Very flirty for months. One day he tells me he went away for the weekend with a girl, very romantic. ...

Christan
Feb 1, 20211 min read
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Is He Using Her For Emotional Support After His Breakup?
Hello! I became friends with a man I met while pet-sitting (he hired me to look after his cats) and we discovered we were highly...

Christan
Jan 25, 20213 min read
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Casual Sex Isn't For Everybody...And That's OK
Hi, I follow you on tiktok and love the advice you give. I went through something that really hurt me a few months ago and I'm wondering...

Christan
Jan 22, 20213 min read
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