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Christan
Oct 25, 20204 min read
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
Oct 22, 20203 min read
How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick
QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...
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Christan
Oct 5, 20205 min read
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
Sep 23, 20203 min read
Reasons Your Bumble Match Thinks You're A Creep
And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
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Christan
Sep 15, 20205 min read
Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
Aug 9, 20204 min read
Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?
An article in Refinery29 UK covers the latest dating phenomenon - stashing. If you're like me, you just stopped and asked yourself, "What...
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Christan
Jul 15, 20205 min read
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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Christan
Jul 13, 20203 min read
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
Jul 8, 20204 min read
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
Jun 12, 20203 min read
Did He Find Someone Else Or Is He Just A Flake?
Hello. I recently had 2 dates with a guy who initiated contact on a dating app, he seemed really nice, interesting, and very interested...
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Christan
Jun 8, 20203 min read
What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
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Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
May 22, 20203 min read
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
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Christan
May 20, 20203 min read
How To Get More Messages On Dating Apps
So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend...
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Christan
May 14, 20204 min read
The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear
Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...
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Christan
Apr 26, 20203 min read
Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20202 min read
Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop
MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20204 min read
Is He a Flake Or a Scammer?
I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
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Christan
Mar 21, 20202 min read
Master Dating Apps Without Losing Your Mind Online Wo
THURSDAY, MAR 26 - 7PM EASTERN ***This is a 45 minute online workshop you can attend from home. $20 - Please prepay here...
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