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Christan
Jan 9, 20234 min read
Ignore This Bro Science Myth About Dating
There’s a dating coach on TikTok that claims when a man first falls in love with you, his testosterone goes down, so he ghosts you for...
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Christan
May 19, 20224 min read
Tips To Avoid Getting Ghosted After A Video Chat
This specific pattern has happened to me multiple times that I have noticed there may be something wrong with me. I would match with a...
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Christan
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Signs They're A Serial Dater
I’ve recently went on a handful of dates over the last couple of months. Usually stemming from bumble/hinge and they’ve all been great....
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Christan
Jan 11, 20222 min read
Let's Stop Letting Men Hurt Our Feelings
Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...
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Christan
Jan 3, 20221 min read
He Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYE
Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...
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Christan
Oct 27, 20211 min read
Statements Only: Avoid Guys That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time
Let’s talk about how to set up that first date so you can avoid conversations like this one. So here’s how this is going to go: Don’t...
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Christan
Oct 14, 20213 min read
What Are Your Online Dating Pet Peeves?
I asked my Instagram followers what their biggest online dating pet peeves were. Here are a few responses and my explanations. People who...
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Christan
May 27, 20212 min read
Why Do They Ask Her Out Then Ghost?
What confuses me most about dating is probably this. I seem to meet a lot of men who act like they're really interested in seeing me...
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Christan
Mar 8, 20214 min read
Is He Hung Up On His Ex Or Just Not Interested?
This guy I went on one date with and had a really good time seems to be very inconsistent. So I just ask him what he’s looking for and...
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Christan
Feb 22, 20215 min read
Does He Really Like Her Or Is He Using Her?
Hey, so I've a complicated one. I've been madly in love with this fella since the age of 11 and back then he also liked me. We became...
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Christan
Feb 2, 20211 min read
Signs They're Looking For A Relationship
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Christan
Jan 31, 20212 min read
Is He Blowing Her Off?
50 year old who is not used to dating scene - so much has changed! I met a guy online! We messaged for about a month intermittently...
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Christan
Jan 20, 20213 min read
Some People Just Don't Deserve A Second Chance
Hi. I matched with someone on bumble and we hit it off very well. I waited for about 3 weeks before we exchanged numbers. We exchanged ...
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Christan
Dec 20, 20201 min read
There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk
This guy really thought what he said was appropriate.
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Christan
Nov 22, 20201 min read
Online Dating Hot Takes: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly
So, some of these might upset some people. Like the one about how people only care if you lied about your height or age if they don't...
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Christan
Oct 25, 20204 min read
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
Aug 16, 20203 min read
Why Did She Dump Him After Sex?
After two weeks of texting and three dates, a woman I met on Tinder said she wasn't feeling it and wanted us to be friends. (We were...
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Christan
Aug 13, 20204 min read
Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
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Christan
Jul 15, 20205 min read
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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