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Should You Send Your First Date A Follow Up Text?

Feb 14, 20213 min read

Should You Send Your First Date A Follow Up Text?

So I just went on a great first date last night. The conversation was flowing so nicely to the point time just flew by. I was not...

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Christan

Jan 20, 20212 min read

Why Does Her Ex Stalk Her Instagram?

What’s up with men who you’ve been intimate with that stop talking to you but continue to like all your photos and stories? One guy...

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Are You Looking For Reasons To Reject Someone?

Christan

Jan 18, 20213 min read

Are You Looking For Reasons To Reject Someone?

I am a 55 year old man in the UK and think I look okay for my years , solvent and have my own home . I lost my partner to cancer 2 years...

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Christan

Jan 4, 20213 min read

How To Bounce Back After Being Ghosted

How do you remain positive and open to dating when you’ve been ghosted so often? It’s hard to ‘get back out there’ when you’ve been...

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Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Christan

Jan 2, 20214 min read

Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?

Why is it that I can’t find a guy who can actually make and commit to plans?? It’s always “oh yea we’ll do something...” “I’ll think of...

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There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk

Christan

Dec 20, 20201 min read

There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk

This guy really thought what he said was appropriate.

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Christan

Dec 20, 20201 min read

Signs They're Going To Cancel The Date

Is COVID making people more flaky? Let's dig-in.

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Christan

Nov 30, 20202 min read

Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?

So i have been seeing this guy for a month now. We have only been out twice. Once for coffee and once for lunch. Now he wants to meet...

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First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship

Christan

Nov 24, 20201 min read

First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship

New dating podcast alert! FIRST DATE SEX & EXCHANGING SEX FOR EXCLUSIVITY First up, we discuss a toxic Tik Tok that went viral from a man...

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If You Don't Do Hookups Then Don't Hookup.

Christan

Nov 16, 20202 min read

If You Don't Do Hookups Then Don't Hookup.

Here's a Reddit post we address on this week's Dateology Podcast. TL;DR: guy who had no intention of dating me misled me and...

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Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice

Christan

Oct 21, 20201 min read

Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice

If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set...

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Christan

Oct 5, 20205 min read

How To Succeed At Online Dating

After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...

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Who Pays On The First Date, Who Doesn't & Why

Christan

Sep 29, 20204 min read

Who Pays On The First Date, Who Doesn't & Why

It’s still the norm that the vast majority of women are free loaders. They rarely offer to pay their fair share. Last week this woman I...

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Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You

Christan

Sep 15, 20205 min read

Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You

There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...

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Is It Sexist To Expect Men To Pay For Dates?

Christan

Sep 4, 20203 min read

Is It Sexist To Expect Men To Pay For Dates?

Why is it that the vast majority of women still do not offer to pickup their share of the cost a date night out? Is that not sexism?...

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Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Christan

Aug 6, 20201 min read

Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...

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Christan

Aug 2, 20204 min read

Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates

Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...

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Christan

Jul 30, 20201 min read

Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...

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Christan

Jul 15, 20205 min read

Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...

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Christan

Jul 13, 20203 min read

How To Love Online Dating Again

I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...

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