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Jun 7, 20231 min read

Why Men Try For Sex On The First Date

For context, please watch this TikTok before listening to the free dating advice podcast. This creator went on a first date for lunch...

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Christan

Mar 15, 20231 min read

She Ditched Her Date Over $3 Cheese

In This Episode: We’re talking Oscars and why Angela Bassett had every right to be pissed that she lost to a mid-to-average performance...

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Christan

Feb 1, 20231 min read

Free Dating Advice Zoom

If you're single and dating (or thinking about dating again), join us for an informative, light-hearted discussion about the current...

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Fool Proof Ways To Find Love On Dating Apps

Christan

Jan 23, 20231 min read

Fool Proof Ways To Find Love On Dating Apps

In The Year Of Our Lord 2023, it’s time for you to get a return on investment from all those dating app memberships being charged to your...

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Men Who Lose Interest In Women After Sex

Christan

Jan 10, 20231 min read

Men Who Lose Interest In Women After Sex

In This Week's Episode: Listen To The Full Length Episode The Idaho 4: We discuss the affidavit and talk about the incel culture &...

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Christan

Nov 11, 20223 min read

Just Say No To Coffee Dates

Photo courtesy of Canva.com I’ve been creating content about dating for a very long time. Some Evergreen topics will never stop being...

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Did He Lose Interest Or Was He Just Looking For A Hookup?

Christan

Jun 7, 20223 min read

Did He Lose Interest Or Was He Just Looking For A Hookup?

I got tagged in the comments of this video so let’s talk about it. I would encourage you to go to her page and watch part 1 for context....

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Christan

Feb 1, 20224 min read

Signs They're A Serial Dater

I’ve recently went on a handful of dates over the last couple of months. Usually stemming from bumble/hinge and they’ve all been great....

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Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Christan

Jan 25, 20221 min read

Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...

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Episode Preview - Sex Toys, 1st Date Care Packages & Exchanging Socials

Christan

Jan 11, 20221 min read

Episode Preview - Sex Toys, 1st Date Care Packages & Exchanging Socials

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL PATREON EPISODE: Should you give your socials or last name to people before a first date?...

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Christan

Oct 29, 20212 min read

The Great Coffee Date Debate

This post isn’t about the pros and cons of coffee dates. Personally, I think they’re uninspired, lazy and often used as a test by a lot...

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Statements Only: Avoid Guys That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

Christan

Oct 27, 20211 min read

Statements Only: Avoid Guys That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

Let’s talk about how to set up that first date so you can avoid conversations like this one. So here’s how this is going to go: Don’t...

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When He Unmatches You After The First Date

Christan

Oct 22, 20212 min read

When He Unmatches You After The First Date

"Had a seemingly great first date. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. So confused as to...

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F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

Christan

Oct 18, 20211 min read

F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...

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Should She Tell Her Friends They're Dating The Same Man ?

Christan

Oct 7, 20211 min read

Should She Tell Her Friends They're Dating The Same Man ?

IN THIS EPISODE: A Bumble conversation that went horribly wrong Why can she only attract younger men? Should she tell two women they’re...

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What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates

Christan

Apr 15, 20211 min read

What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates

An ex-boyfriend has reached out to me after breaking up 5 months ago. I agreed to talk with him and he very blatantly asked for a ...

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How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Christan

Mar 26, 20211 min read

How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship

Hey so I've been talking to this guy for 4 months and yesterday I asked him what his intentions were. I had the conversation with him...

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Your Instincts Are Better Than You Think

Christan

Mar 1, 20215 min read

Your Instincts Are Better Than You Think

I've been listening to your podcast for the past few weeks, and I find your advice to be extremely helpful. Based on some of the advice...

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Christan

Feb 17, 20212 min read

Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...

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How To Avoid The Post-First Date Freak Out

Christan

Feb 16, 20211 min read

How To Avoid The Post-First Date Freak Out

I recently had a first date with this guy and it went really well, chemistry was there, good conversation, attraction, etc. He had told...

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