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Is He An Avoidant Or A Narcissist?
I very recently, as in about a month ago, met a guy, had a connection with him unlike any I had ever experienced (including being with...
Christan
Jan 27, 20234 min read
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Fool Proof Ways To Find Love On Dating Apps
In The Year Of Our Lord 2023, it’s time for you to get a return on investment from all those dating app memberships being charged to your...
Christan
Jan 23, 20231 min read
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Where Are All The Emotionally Healthy Men?
Hi! Im about to be 32 and live in NYC. I have never been in a relationship, by choice. To give you a little more background Im a ...
Christan
Dec 22, 20213 min read
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Why Don't They Just Say They're Not Interested?
Quick question. I connected with a guy from Tinder in 2019. Since I don't like to text, I gave him my number so that we could arrange...
Christan
Dec 17, 20213 min read
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Don't Fall Prey To The Tinder Tourist Trap
Hey, I need advice! I met up with a guy from tinder, had an awesome night, was intimate with him, now coming down from it, the usual....
Christan
Nov 17, 20213 min read
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Things Not To Say In Your Profile If You're Looking For A Relationship
Looking to take things slow/start as friends - Unless you’re on the asexuality, spectrum, a disclaimer like this will make you sound...
Christan
Oct 15, 20211 min read
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Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters
In this episode We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork How does she get rid of her meth-loving...
Christan
Jul 13, 20211 min read
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Is Your Crush Actually A Crutch?
Im in love with my friend. Some days we’ll talk on the phone for HOURS. We talk almost every day & are so close it is like we can read...
Christan
Jul 1, 20211 min read
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Why They'll Sleep With You But Not Date You
Never in my life have I spent time, conversation, and physical affection on someone I wasn’t interested in. The fact that men can enjoy ...
Christan
Apr 30, 20211 min read
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Is She Not Interested Or Is He Just Not Toxic?
After years of trauma bonding with men and having dysfunctional relationships, I’m finally working on boundaries and being authentic...
Christan
Apr 14, 20213 min read
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Beware The Man That Won't Let Go
I hope you can help me I’m so confused!! I dated this guy for 6 months I was catching feelings then he said he can’t go on like this...
Christan
Apr 12, 20214 min read
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How Do You Let Someone Go That Hurt You?
I went back on the dating apps back in September 2020 after eight years of being celibate for 8 years and I matched with this handsome...
Christan
Feb 9, 20213 min read
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Why Does His Ex-Wife Hater Her So Much?
His relationship with his ex-wife is dangerously volatile. What happened?
Christan
Jan 28, 20211 min read
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Is He Using Her For Emotional Support After His Breakup?
Hello! I became friends with a man I met while pet-sitting (he hired me to look after his cats) and we discovered we were highly...
Christan
Jan 25, 20213 min read
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Do You Attract The Wrong People Or Retain Them?
From a recent Reddit post: I made a (since deleted) post about it a few days back - how this guy was consistently running hot (even...
Christan
Oct 1, 20204 min read
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When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
Christan
Sep 8, 20203 min read
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How Come She Only Meets Unavailable Men?
The operative word here is "seem." You "seem" to exclusively attract unavailable men. Only in the case of men in relationships can you...
Christan
Jun 22, 20203 min read
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