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Why Do Men Try To Get Women To Go 50/50?

Jan 30, 20231 min read

Why Do Men Try To Get Women To Go 50/50?

Make sure you become a paying subscriber to listen to both episodes. Coming up in this tomorrow’s episode: We talk about how much it...

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Episode Preview - Sex Toys, 1st Date Care Packages & Exchanging Socials

Christan

Jan 11, 20221 min read

Episode Preview - Sex Toys, 1st Date Care Packages & Exchanging Socials

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL PATREON EPISODE: Should you give your socials or last name to people before a first date?...

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Christan

Jan 3, 20221 min read

He Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYE

Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...

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What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?

Christan

May 11, 20213 min read

What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?

I just started talking to a guy through a dating app and we moved to texting (my choice). We have really great convo and it’s even...

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Christan

May 6, 20211 min read

Why Is His Ex Trying To Befriend Her?

So I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and things are great. He respects boundaries I respect boundaries. Wevboth have ...

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Is It Ever Too Late To Find Your Person?

Christan

Apr 22, 20212 min read

Is It Ever Too Late To Find Your Person?

Hi! I ended a 3 1/2 year relationship last November 2020 and I’m still heartbroken. I really thought he was the one. We had dated many...

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Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

Christan

Dec 30, 20201 min read

Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...

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Christan

Dec 25, 20203 min read

Is He Hiding A Secret Life?

Saw you on tiktok and wanted to reach out. I’m having some issues dealing with my boyfriend’s handling or lack there of when it comes to...

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The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40

Christan

Oct 7, 20203 min read

The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40

I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+? Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...

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Christan

Sep 27, 20204 min read

Are You Single Because You're Shallow?

I have been on dating sites for years and, I find mostly the regular person with average interests and, I have had relationships with ...

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Reasons Your Bumble Match Thinks You're A Creep

Christan

Sep 23, 20203 min read

Reasons Your Bumble Match Thinks You're A Creep

And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...

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What Do You Do When You're Over 40 And Still Want Kids?

Christan

Sep 10, 20203 min read

What Do You Do When You're Over 40 And Still Want Kids?

This might sound like a dumb question but how should a woman who is 49 handle the question on a dating site in regards to wanting kids? I...

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Is It Sexist To Expect Men To Pay For Dates?

Christan

Sep 4, 20203 min read

Is It Sexist To Expect Men To Pay For Dates?

Why is it that the vast majority of women still do not offer to pickup their share of the cost a date night out? Is that not sexism?...

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The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

Christan

Aug 31, 20204 min read

The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...

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Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

Christan

Aug 27, 20201 min read

Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore

We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore. Sexting after marathon date...

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Christan

Aug 26, 20204 min read

Why People Lie In Their Dating Profiles

More from Reddit. Just joined Hinge a few weeks ago. This is the first guy who actually seems to want to take me on an actual date and...

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Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Christan

Aug 6, 20201 min read

Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men

Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...

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Christan

Aug 5, 20205 min read

How To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile

A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...

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Christan

Jun 30, 20204 min read

Never Upgrade Your First Date

Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...

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Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing

Christan

May 10, 20201 min read

Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing

Scammers are constantly educating themselves on the various traps laid out for them. They know what we look for, which is why you can’t ...

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