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Christan
Nov 16, 20201 min read
Nobody Is Obligated To Date A Single Parent
I understand why dating as a single parent can be frustrating. I really do. But let's stop making this about how the person rejecting the...
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Christan
Nov 16, 20202 min read
If You Don't Do Hookups Then Don't Hookup.
Here's a Reddit post we address on this week's Dateology Podcast. TL;DR: guy who had no intention of dating me misled me and...
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Christan
Nov 10, 20201 min read
It's Time To Normalize Loneliness
We need to ditch the stigma attached to loneliness. The stigma is what compels people to return to dating apps when they are vulnerable,...
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Christan
Oct 25, 20204 min read
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
Oct 19, 20203 min read
Is She His Emotional Support Girlfriend?
Last fall, I met a man on Bumble and we dated for about three months. He spent the night once or twice a week, we made dinner together,...
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Christan
Oct 11, 20204 min read
Sex, Lies And Expectations
From Reddit: I’m 42 and divorced. I met this amazing guy on Bumble. We chatted for a bit and then met up for lunch on a Monday. We had...
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Christan
Oct 1, 20204 min read
Do You Attract The Wrong People Or Retain Them?
From a recent Reddit post: I made a (since deleted) post about it a few days back - how this guy was consistently running hot (even...
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Christan
Sep 29, 20204 min read
Who Pays On The First Date, Who Doesn't & Why
It’s still the norm that the vast majority of women are free loaders. They rarely offer to pay their fair share. Last week this woman I...
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Christan
Sep 27, 20204 min read
Are You Single Because You're Shallow?
I have been on dating sites for years and, I find mostly the regular person with average interests and, I have had relationships with ...
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Christan
Sep 15, 20205 min read
Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
Sep 14, 20205 min read
How To Match With People You Find Attractive
Why is it that men on my dating sites (Elite and Match) who look non professional and have none of my interests the only ones who pick...
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Christan
Aug 31, 20204 min read
The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
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Christan
Aug 24, 20205 min read
Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
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Christan
Aug 11, 20203 min read
The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
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Christan
Aug 2, 20204 min read
Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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Christan
Jul 27, 20205 min read
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
Jul 20, 20204 min read
Are Dating Apps Racist?
Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
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Christan
Jul 15, 20205 min read
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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Christan
Jul 13, 20203 min read
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
Jun 30, 20204 min read
Never Upgrade Your First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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