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Why Do Men Agree To Be Exclusive If They're Not Ready For Commitment?

Mar 21, 20231 min read

Why Do Men Agree To Be Exclusive If They're Not Ready For Commitment?

In this podcast teaser, we’re discussing garbage advice to women about moving in with someone, the importance of cohabitation agreements,...

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If You Have To Do This, They Don't Want To Be With You

Christan

Feb 9, 20231 min read

If You Have To Do This, They Don't Want To Be With You

Enjoy Another Teaser To This Week’s Dating Advice podcast Episode To listen to the full episode, become an exclusive subscriber. Your $7...

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Tips To Avoid Getting Ghosted After A Video Chat

Christan

May 19, 20224 min read

Tips To Avoid Getting Ghosted After A Video Chat

This specific pattern has happened to me multiple times that I have noticed there may be something wrong with me. I would match with a...

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Christan

Feb 18, 20221 min read

Why You Should Just Let Someone Ghost

What would be the appropriate response…. If any…. Match with a man on dating site. We text and talk on the phone for a week. We have one...

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This Might Be Why You Keep Dating The Wrong People

Christan

Feb 4, 20224 min read

This Might Be Why You Keep Dating The Wrong People

I have figured out the “he’s not into you” and other things to try to better myself. I problem is this. Why can’t I attract a viable...

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Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Christan

Jan 25, 20221 min read

Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...

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F*ck That Guy: Friends With Benefits Edition

Christan

Jan 14, 20223 min read

F*ck That Guy: Friends With Benefits Edition

Listen to The Dateology Coach Podcast for more dating advice. So I’m trying to get out of a fwb situation. We are on this dance for over...

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Let's Stop Letting Men Hurt Our Feelings

Christan

Jan 11, 20222 min read

Let's Stop Letting Men Hurt Our Feelings

Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...

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Women Are Dating Like Men And Men Don't Like It

Christan

Dec 1, 20211 min read

Women Are Dating Like Men And Men Don't Like It

I said what I said. This guy prattles off a list of behavior he believes women are guilty of in today’s dating scene. He’s blissfully ...

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Christan

Nov 19, 20210 min read

Why Has Dating Become So Hard?

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When He Unmatches You After The First Date

Christan

Oct 22, 20212 min read

When He Unmatches You After The First Date

"Had a seemingly great first date. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. So confused as to...

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It's What They Do Between Dates That Matters

Christan

Oct 21, 20214 min read

It's What They Do Between Dates That Matters

After 4mons of matching, small talk, me unmatching, and us matching again for the 5th time, this guy asks me for my number and to make...

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Christan

Oct 14, 20213 min read

What Are Your Online Dating Pet Peeves?

I asked my Instagram followers what their biggest online dating pet peeves were. Here are a few responses and my explanations. People who...

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Why Can't He Find Women That Interest Him?

Christan

Oct 5, 20214 min read

Why Can't He Find Women That Interest Him?

MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE Can’t make one of the workshops? Download my Master Online Dating Online Course. This course...

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Christan

Sep 23, 20214 min read

The Dangers Of Being Emotionally Slutty

I seem to notice this pattern coming up when dating. For example, this most recent date...he initially messaged me, we noticed similar...

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Why Don't Men Ask Women Any Questions On First Dates?

Christan

Sep 7, 20213 min read

Why Don't Men Ask Women Any Questions On First Dates?

Back on Bumble after an 8 month break. Matched with a guy who seems nice, been having fun banter but I realized he only asked me two...

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Christan

Aug 15, 20211 min read

It's a F*ck That Guy Extravaganza!

We might have to come up with a new catch phrase after this episode. A woman writes in asking how she can get her boyfriend to stop...

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Christan

Jul 16, 20212 min read

Why Did Her E-Boyfriend Lose Interest?

I met a man on Facebook dating Fall 2019..he got my attention by being consistent with his communication..so we exchanged phone numbers...

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Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

Christan

Jul 13, 20211 min read

Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

In this episode We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork How does she get rid of her meth-loving...

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Would You Want To Know You Were Someone's Second Choice?

Christan

Jul 8, 20213 min read

Would You Want To Know You Were Someone's Second Choice?

Just wondering if you can advise: texting a guy for a couple weeks we hit it off and planned on meeting. He ticked all my boxes! Due...

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