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Christan
Jun 16, 20203 min read
The Problem With "Preferences" In Dating Profiles
One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
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Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
Jun 8, 20202 min read
How Do You Get Your Matches To Meet Offline?
From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all...
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Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
May 20, 20203 min read
How To Get More Messages On Dating Apps
So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend...
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Christan
May 10, 20201 min read
Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing
Scammers are constantly educating themselves on the various traps laid out for them. They know what we look for, which is why you can’t ...
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Christan
Apr 26, 20203 min read
Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
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Christan
Apr 12, 20203 min read
Are Dating Apps Full of Men Just Looking For Sex?
Hi, prior to the virus pandemic I explored online dating without success. I have encountered that the quality of men on these sites is...
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Christan
Apr 9, 20206 min read
How COVID-19 Will Change How We Date
With a light flickering oh-so dimly up ahead signaling the end to our days in isolation, a new question is emerging: Will...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20202 min read
Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop
MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...
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Christan
Apr 1, 20204 min read
Is He a Flake Or a Scammer?
I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
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Christan
Mar 21, 20202 min read
Master Dating Apps Without Losing Your Mind Online Wo
THURSDAY, MAR 26 - 7PM EASTERN ***This is a 45 minute online workshop you can attend from home. $20 - Please prepay here...
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Christan
Mar 4, 20206 min read
Avoid The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
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Christan
Mar 1, 20204 min read
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
Feb 6, 20204 min read
Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...
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Christan
Jan 27, 20207 min read
How To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & Flakes
Laura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...
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Christan
Jan 15, 20203 min read
How To Avoid Dating Burn Out
Terri asks: I find myself having "dating fatigue" and just wondering how you deal with it? I've been actively using dating apps like...
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Christan
Dec 11, 20193 min read
Get More Dates With Tinder & Bumble
Holiday season is upon us and many singles are hoping to find someone special. If that's you and you've been using dating apps like...
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Christan
Nov 20, 20196 min read
Is He Jerking Her Around Or Just a Flake?
Name: Katie Question: I go through phases where I use Tinder fairly actively, and then I get burned out and take breaks and start over....
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