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Christan
Nov 10, 20201 min read
It's Time To Normalize Loneliness
We need to ditch the stigma attached to loneliness. The stigma is what compels people to return to dating apps when they are vulnerable,...
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Christan
Oct 22, 20203 min read
How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick
QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...
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Christan
Oct 7, 20203 min read
The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40
I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+? Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...
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Christan
Oct 5, 20205 min read
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
Aug 31, 20204 min read
The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
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Christan
Aug 20, 20201 min read
Dateology Podcast - Tinder Stalkers & Juggling Multiple Partners
We talk the pair and a spare theory and how men aren't the only ones that date multiple people at the same time. Also discussed is a...
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Christan
Aug 19, 20202 min read
Great Dating Profile Example: The Playful Creative-Type
I love this! Here's why: It's succinct - Since users aren't allotted much space in a dating app bio, it's okay to write in fragmented...
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Christan
Aug 13, 20204 min read
Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
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Christan
Aug 12, 20201 min read
Dateology - Dating, Disclosure & Disabilities
Whether it's a physical impairment or invisible illness, dating with a disability is a conversation we don't have often enough. In this...
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Christan
Aug 11, 20203 min read
The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
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Christan
Aug 5, 20205 min read
How To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile
A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...
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Christan
Aug 2, 20204 min read
Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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Christan
Jul 30, 20201 min read
Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
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Christan
Jul 20, 20204 min read
Are Dating Apps Racist?
Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
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Christan
Jul 13, 20203 min read
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
Jul 6, 20203 min read
How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
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Christan
Jun 30, 20204 min read
Never Upgrade Your First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
Jun 28, 20205 min read
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...
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Christan
Jun 22, 20203 min read
How Come She Only Meets Unavailable Men?
The operative word here is "seem." You "seem" to exclusively attract unavailable men. Only in the case of men in relationships can you...
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