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Can You Have Intimacy With A Man Without Having Sex?

Jun 1, 20224 min read

Can You Have Intimacy With A Man Without Having Sex?

Hello, I recently got out of a pretty long term relationship, 13 years together, 5 of which were married. We separated due to a...

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Don't Miss This Sign Your Match Is A Fraud

Christan

Oct 5, 20210 min read

Don't Miss This Sign Your Match Is A Fraud

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Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

Christan

Jul 13, 20211 min read

Low Effort Men & Sex-Seeking Time Wasters

In this episode We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork How does she get rid of her meth-loving...

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Why I Side-Eye Older Women/Younger Men Relationships

Christan

Jul 6, 20211 min read

Why I Side-Eye Older Women/Younger Men Relationships

IN THIS EPISODE: Why I side-eye older women/younger men relationships How men need to step it up in the self-care department Should she...

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Christan

Jan 31, 20212 min read

Is He Blowing Her Off?

50 year old who is not used to dating scene - so much has changed! I met a guy online! We messaged for about a month intermittently...

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Christan

Jan 4, 20213 min read

How To Bounce Back After Being Ghosted

How do you remain positive and open to dating when you’ve been ghosted so often? It’s hard to ‘get back out there’ when you’ve been...

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Christan

Dec 22, 20200 min read

Online Dating, Trauma & PTSD

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Christan

Dec 18, 20201 min read

Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men ...

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Not-So-Obvious Signs They're Just Looking To Hook-Up

Christan

Dec 17, 20201 min read

Not-So-Obvious Signs They're Just Looking To Hook-Up

We know the obvious signs that someone is just looking for sex, but what about the ones that aren't so obvious? Part 1 of my 4 part...

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First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship

Christan

Nov 24, 20201 min read

First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship

New dating podcast alert! FIRST DATE SEX & EXCHANGING SEX FOR EXCLUSIVITY First up, we discuss a toxic Tik Tok that went viral from a man...

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How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

Christan

Nov 13, 20202 min read

How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...

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Christan

Oct 29, 20203 min read

How To Write A Kick-Ass Dating Profile Bio - Free Worksheet Included

Download my free worksheet that will help you write a more well-rounded and engaging dating app bio or online dating site About Me...

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Christan

Aug 5, 20205 min read

How To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile

A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...

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Christan

Jul 29, 20203 min read

Ready To Social Distance Date? Add This To Your Dating Profile ASAP

I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...

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The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear

Christan

May 14, 20204 min read

The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear

Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...

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Christan

Apr 1, 20202 min read

Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop

MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...

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Christan

Apr 1, 20204 min read

Is He a Flake Or a Scammer?

I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...

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The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps

Christan

Feb 27, 20204 min read

The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps

I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...

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