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Man Warns Women About Becoming Alpha Widows
Enjoy A Teaser Of This Week’s Podcast. Sarah and I analyze an article lecturing women to lower their standards and stop dating hot guys...
Christan
Feb 15, 20231 min read
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Dating Online When You're Not Over Your Ex
Just got out of a 10 year marriage, wife left for another man. Confidence is low. Need to get back on the dating scene. How does this...
Christan
May 24, 20225 min read
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The Dangers Of Being Emotionally Slutty
I seem to notice this pattern coming up when dating. For example, this most recent date...he initially messaged me, we noticed similar...
Christan
Sep 23, 20214 min read
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Why Do We Obsess Over People That Hurt Us?
Why is it so hard to stop thinking about someone that has repeatedly hurt us? Watch the Tik Tok that inspired this post. There are a few...
Christan
Jul 19, 20212 min read
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Is She Not Interested Or Is He Just Not Toxic?
After years of trauma bonding with men and having dysfunctional relationships, I’m finally working on boundaries and being authentic...
Christan
Apr 14, 20213 min read
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Beware The Man That Won't Let Go
I hope you can help me I’m so confused!! I dated this guy for 6 months I was catching feelings then he said he can’t go on like this...
Christan
Apr 12, 20214 min read
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Why Some Men Ghost After Sex
A reader recently sent me a message asking me what I thought of this Tik Tok. In the video, podcast host Joe Rogan and his guest discuss...
Christan
Apr 3, 20211 min read
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The Traumatic Effects of A Break-Up
38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...
Christan
Mar 20, 20213 min read
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Your Instincts Are Better Than You Think
I've been listening to your podcast for the past few weeks, and I find your advice to be extremely helpful. Based on some of the advice...
Christan
Mar 1, 20215 min read
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How Do You Let Someone Go That Hurt You?
I went back on the dating apps back in September 2020 after eight years of being celibate for 8 years and I matched with this handsome...
Christan
Feb 9, 20213 min read
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How To Stop Dating Toxic Partners
How do I break the cycle of dating the same type of guy over and over? I allow myself to be a doormat for them even though I know better....
Christan
Feb 4, 20213 min read
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Never Ignore This Dating Red Flag
I was dating a guy for almost 2 months. The first month was great, we talked for hours on the phone every night. He asked me to be his...
Christan
Feb 4, 20212 min read
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First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship
New dating podcast alert! FIRST DATE SEX & EXCHANGING SEX FOR EXCLUSIVITY First up, we discuss a toxic Tik Tok that went viral from a man...
Christan
Nov 24, 20201 min read
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Should She Dump Him For Oversharing?
I need guidance before I can move forward with the decision to exclusively date a man I met on Tinder. I pressed the pause button on my ...
Christan
Sep 2, 20204 min read
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How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
Christan
Jul 22, 20204 min read
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He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
Christan
Feb 20, 20206 min read
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Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
Christan
Feb 12, 20201 min read
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When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
Christan
Jan 8, 20206 min read
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Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?
Confused asks: Comment: Hi. About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC. We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd...
Christan
Dec 22, 20195 min read
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How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly
Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
Christan
Dec 17, 20198 min read
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