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Never Change Who You Are For Love
In this week’s podcast, my co-host and I discuss a Tik Tok from a woman who thinks her dating struggles are due to “being too much in her...
Christan
Apr 25, 20232 min read
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Signs They're Looking For A Relationship
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Christan
Feb 2, 20211 min read
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Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?
Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...
Christan
Jan 13, 20213 min read
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Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
Christan
Sep 20, 20201 min read
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How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
Christan
Jul 13, 20203 min read
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The Problem With "Preferences" In Dating Profiles
One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
Christan
Jun 16, 20203 min read
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Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
Christan
Apr 26, 20203 min read
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Master Dating Apps Without Losing Your Mind Online Wo
THURSDAY, MAR 26 - 7PM EASTERN ***This is a 45 minute online workshop you can attend from home. $20 - Please prepay here...
Christan
Mar 21, 20202 min read
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Beware The Relationship Rebooter
Elizabeth asks: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago and his reasons were... questionable. I mean, they made no...
Christan
Mar 19, 20205 min read
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Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
Christan
Feb 12, 20201 min read
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Signs He's Just Looking For Sex
Comment: Hello. I am a 33 year old single woman with no children, have my own successful business and I'm considered very attractive. ...
Christan
Nov 28, 20193 min read
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Maybe You're The One That's Emotionally Unavailable
Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...
Christan
Nov 26, 20193 min read
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Signs They're Stringing You Along
Alias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some...
Christan
Nov 25, 201910 min read
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