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Why You Should Buy Yourself A Fake Engagement Ring
I came across this Tik Tok this morning and wanted to discuss it. In the video, the woman reveals she bought herself a fake engagement...
Christan
May 16, 20231 min read
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Free Dating Advice Zoom
If you're single and dating (or thinking about dating again), join us for an informative, light-hearted discussion about the current...
Christan
Feb 1, 20231 min read
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F*ck That Guy: Friends With Benefits Edition
Listen to The Dateology Coach Podcast for more dating advice. So I’m trying to get out of a fwb situation. We are on this dance for over...
Christan
Jan 14, 20223 min read
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It's What They Do Between Dates That Matters
After 4mons of matching, small talk, me unmatching, and us matching again for the 5th time, this guy asks me for my number and to make...
Christan
Oct 21, 20214 min read
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Are You In Lust, Love or Limerance?
I met a friend (1) of a friend (2) before the pandemic started and we really clicked but at the time I was in a bad place so let the...
Christan
Feb 19, 20213 min read
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The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40
I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+? Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...
Christan
Oct 7, 20203 min read
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Great Dating Profile Example: The Playful Creative-Type
I love this! Here's why: It's succinct - Since users aren't allotted much space in a dating app bio, it's okay to write in fragmented...
Christan
Aug 19, 20202 min read
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Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
Christan
Jul 8, 20204 min read
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Never Upgrade Your First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
Christan
Jun 30, 20204 min read
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Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...
Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
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How Come She Only Meets Unavailable Men?
The operative word here is "seem." You "seem" to exclusively attract unavailable men. Only in the case of men in relationships can you...
Christan
Jun 22, 20203 min read
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How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
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What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
Christan
Jun 8, 20203 min read
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Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
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How COVID-19 Will Change How We Date
With a light flickering oh-so dimly up ahead signaling the end to our days in isolation, a new question is emerging: Will...
Christan
Apr 9, 20206 min read
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Podcast - Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex
Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual...
Christan
Mar 21, 20201 min read
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A Case For Ghosting
Let's first address the obvious: is it possible he just happened to start dating someone at the exact same time as we matched? YES....
Christan
Mar 9, 20202 min read
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Avoid The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
Christan
Mar 4, 20206 min read
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The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
Christan
Feb 27, 20204 min read
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Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?
Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am...
Christan
Feb 23, 20204 min read
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