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Christan
Dec 3, 20202 min read
Is He In Love or Lovebombing Her?
Should I be concerned if he commits and says I love you at 5 weeks? OR does love at first sight really exist? I don't happen to believe...
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Christan
Nov 10, 20201 min read
It's Time To Normalize Loneliness
We need to ditch the stigma attached to loneliness. The stigma is what compels people to return to dating apps when they are vulnerable,...
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Christan
Aug 24, 20205 min read
Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
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Christan
Aug 16, 20203 min read
Why Did She Dump Him After Sex?
After two weeks of texting and three dates, a woman I met on Tinder said she wasn't feeling it and wanted us to be friends. (We were...
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Christan
Jul 22, 20204 min read
How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
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Christan
Jun 18, 20208 min read
Healing From Childhood Trauma One Dog at a Time
Luca I hopped off my bike while our instructor conducted the post-class cooldown. Kate blotted her forehead with one of Equinox’s famous...
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Christan
Feb 20, 20206 min read
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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Christan
Feb 12, 20201 min read
Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
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Christan
Jan 8, 20206 min read
When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
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Christan
Dec 17, 20198 min read
How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly
Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
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